Hmmmmm? Does her family flee when they see her coming?

This is the flipside of “I had not known Hunger took Holidays” which has been appended to the end of this piece. Ironically this was written almost exactly one week before Hunger took Holidays; the two pieces forming bookends, truely Ying and Yang. I have also appended the Invitation I sent out to some newspeople I know inviting them to the holiday Monday (emergency) lunch.

Last year it was her mother, this year it was her brother and sister-in-law. Which is what has me wondering if her family is tempted to flee at the first sight of her blonde head approaching?

I feel I must protect her identity lest people take to fleeing at her approach since, with her short legs, catching them could be problematic.

The need to press-gang family into service arises at this time every year as the Seventh Day Adventists of the Open Door congregation gather out of town for a several weeks long church camp. This church retreat gives rise to the need to find someone to make and serve the bagged lunches the Open Door serves the homeless 40 Sundays a year.

I had someone who labelled themselves a christian tell me that as Adventists the were not really christians. All I can say to that is that the poor, the hungry, the homeless and those in need in Abbotsford would benefit from a lot more congregations who “are not really christian” but who live the golden rule, practice Christrianity and live their faith.

To her brother, sister-in-law and her “sister” thank you for not running, thank you for the lunch and thank you for the pleasure of your company. To her mother, thank you for the fine job you did with this daughter and son.

I don’t suppose you would consider writing a book on parenting? The world could use many more loving daughters and sons, practicing their faith.


I had not known Hunger took Holidays.

Evidently in Abbotsford hunger takes the last summer long weekend off. What else explains the “meal gap” from lunch Saturday August 4th through lunch Tuesday August 7th, a gap of 72 long hungry hours – if hunger was not taking a Holiday that is?

Usually lunch is available Sundays and Mondays, but with hunger on Holiday the fellowship of the organizations that had taken responsibility for serving lunch on those days joined hunger on Holiday.

Imagine my surprise at finding Hunger on Holiday, as my personal experience with homelessness was that hunger was a pretty constant companion, a gnawing worry.

A simple phone call was all that was needed to set in motion the provision of lunch on Monday, that and a willingness to ask some people to volunteer some time to set up and serve lunch.

Which is what made Hunger Sunday so frustrating – another simple call and Sunday 41 for the year could have been covered with those simple, but hunger appeasing bagged lunches.

I suppose that if the sacrifice to serve lunch on this holiday weekend was to much, I should not expect the effort to give warning so those who understand the meaning of commitment could step in and serve lunch.

Hunger, need, suffering and our host of other social ills take no Holidays.

That is not to say that those who give to their community and the less fortunate in that community do not deserve holidays. It is just that being responsible adults requires making provision for those depending on us for sustenance to be served and not left hanging – and hungry.

Is a simple coffee simply coffee?

A short time ago a forwarded email came to me asking if I knew anyone in need of help. There was a church group who wanted to help some of their fellow Abbotsfordians in getting on their feet and moving forward with their lives. Toward that end they had requested suggestions for people they could help. The person they made the request of forwarded it on, it was forwarded on and so on until it landed in my email box.

It was heartening to hear of people interested in making a difference, who had gotten together to take positive action on their own initiative without waiting around for instructions. What I particularly liked about their approach is they wanted it to be hands on, not looking strictly to give money or some other material object, although such actions were a possibility. They were looking to be involved with the people they would be helping on a continuing basis over the year.

One of the realities I have observed is that continuing support is needed to help achieve a successful outcome in changing lives. Your time, concern and a willingness to listen and just talk are in many ways far more important a contribution than merely material items be they money, furniture, food etc.

We often forget that Man is a social animal. For years due to mental illness and other issues I was a loner, able to go for days (weeks or months at my lowest point) without seeing or interacting with people. One of my concerns as my recovery progressed was slipping back into that isolation. It turned out one of my counsellors was correct; I had reached a point in my recovery where I could not comfortably go back to being a loner.

I am still sometimes surprised by my need these days for social interaction, make that healthy social interaction. What with car troubles and other looming changes life has been a little stressful lately. A good friend called and we did coffee, finishing just minutes ago.

Some of the conversation was about the car and forthcoming changes, but most was about other interesting things going on in Abbotsford and our lives. Being able to sit down and write this comment on the “help needed” email and the thoughts it raised in my mind, is a reflection of what a calming, centering effect a simple coffee and conversation can have.

I also really liked the education possibilities. The church group would get the opportunity to know the people involved and see past the stereotypes; get to observe the many barriers that have come to exist in our society and its structure for those trying to get on with their lives after some problem or trauma had knocked them down; they would also see what difference even simple actions like sharing a coffee can have.

For those who would be on the receiving end of the help there would be the opportunity to change mental thought patterns. It is amazing just how negative an effect on your thought processes, patterns and outlook the beating your mind, your Self, takes in being homeless, addicted, poor or just on a unlucky streak has. An important aspect of your recovery turns out to be to change your way of thinking, of perceiving.

It is an idea with plenty of potential on both sides of the equation, the catch?

Even off the tops of people’s heads and on short notice the list of those in need in our community was overwhelming, far outstripping what this group could do. The request revealed a breadth and depth of need that is daunting and a little frightening.

It is perhaps a little damning that we as a community have failed to see this need and have allowed it to become so deep and wide spread. As a positive balance to this, those forwarding the request are working on finding ways to address the rest of the listed needs.

In that lies what is truly needed for our City, Canadian society, to begin to successfully address the social ills and problems we face: the involvement of the people of the community in helping other members of the community. Sitting around, waiting for someone to tell you what to do, fancy planning or plans will not do it.

The beginning of the end of social ills lies with people simply getting out, getting together and taking actions to address what is needed.

Nothing like active ignorance

**an unposted golden oldie

Usually I just pay no heed to Jeffrey Hanson-Carlson’s drivel with no more than a stray thought as to how much he must be paying the newspaper (www.abbotsfordtimes.com May 11/07) for the privilege of demonstrating to the community his total inanity and lack of understanding on issues.

However, the level of ignorance about the issue of homelessness he has established with his latest printed nonsense is so vast it demands correction and education; lest anyone be fooled into thinking he has any vestige of understanding of homelessness.

From the pompous comfort of his home Hanson-Carlson prattles on about “policy” and his moral superiority to Americans.

Minimum wage? Got no job, no prospects of job as homelessness raises major barriers to becoming employed. A $50 per hour wage level makes no difference to the jobless, prospect-less homeless person.

Health care? One of the major hidden costs of homelessness is the extra demands a person who is homeless places on the health care system. It follows that reducing homelessness reduces the demand on the health care system and is thus good health care policy.

Education? The level of ignorance of reality that is shown in that word is Jovian (planet Jupiter) in scope. A Bachelor of Commerce from the University of Saskatchewan, a Chartered Accountant designation after articling with Coopers & Lybrand. All that education did nothing to prevent my becoming homeless.

It was the support and opportunity championed by Mr. Mangano that presented me with the chance to move off the streets into housing.

I have been championing a course of action that my business background and personal experience with homelessness have led me to believe would result in reducing, even ending, homelessness. I welcomed Mr. Mangano’s visit because he brought this course of action to the attention of local, regional and provincial policy makers. Mr. Mangano’s visit provides an opportunity to stop the insanity of doing the same thing over and over again hoping for a different result and to set out on a new course of action that will actually end homelessness.

I am not a fan of George Bush for the same reason I am not a fan of Hanson-Carlson – an inability of either of them to see reality as it is rather than the way they want it to be. But anyone who, thoughtfully, checked Mr. Mangano’s background in the field of addressing homelessness would know that he has the experience to speak with authority on the issue of homelessness – unlike some who choose to shoot of their mouths.

The best evidence for listening, really listening, to Mr. Mangano and giving careful consideration to his words lies in the results that have been and continue to be achieved by US cities under his czarship”. By using sound business practices these US cities have begun to achieve solid, measurable, verifiable reductions in their homeless populations. Some cities such as Portland Oregon have achieved incredible results – a 70% reduction – because of the political will to DO, not try.

The real treasure Mr. Mangano brought to our attention is the opportunity to practice “the art of legitimate larceny”. We do not have to reinvent the wheel. Rather we have the opportunity to examine the wide variety of “experiments” US cities have been running for the last few years and cherry pick the best practices for adaptation to our local homelessness reduction, getting right on with the job of ending homelessness.

Although I must concede that the proof that we can, through intelligent, results oriented investments and actions, reduce and even end homelessness is a pretty valuable jewel he also brought with him to Abbotsford.

This so-called no-name community advocate considers it a privilege to have had the opportunity to hear, meet and speak with Mr. Mangano. For what he brought with him to town and to us no-name advocates is support and opportunity to end homelessness, echoing the support and opportunity that permitted me to move from being homeless to a no-name advocate on homelessness.

Finally – should Hanson-Carlson have remember that there is a good reason we have two ears and only one mouth, however big and inappropriately open it may be, he would have heard Mr. Mangano repeatedly point out that he was not the “expert” we should be consulting on what is needed locally to end homelessness. Rather he repeatedly pointed out that the experts on what is needed to end homelessness in Abbotsford are those citizens who have been there and done that, moving from homeless to homed.

denouement

It was not unexpected for me in the course of this week to today, Friday August 10, 2007, be given a letter from the Salvation Army serving notice to move from residence at the Salvation Army.

My biggest worry about moving on is that at my car is not running well. So if you know someone would could donate their time to get my VW running at least semi-well and passing Air Care or has a station wagon or van (I am not a small person) for sale cheap …. send me an email at homelessinabbotsford@hotmail.com.

Better yet if you know someone who has a place to rent out at a low rental price OR someone who has an employment need for a literate, computer friendly ex-accountant with a passion for bringing about social change. Send them my way or my email address.

I had not known Hunger took Holidays.

Evidently in Abbotsford hunger takes the last summer long weekend off. What else explains the “meal gap” from lunch Saturday August 4th through lunch Tuesday August 7th, a gap of 72 long hungry hours – if hunger was not taking a Holiday that is?

Usually lunch is available Sundays and Mondays, but with hunger on Holiday the fellowship of the organizations that had taken responsibility for serving lunch on those days joined hunger on Holiday.

Imagine my surprise at finding Hunger on Holiday, as my personal experience with homelessness was that hunger was a pretty constant companion, a gnawing worry.

A simple phone call was all that was needed to set in motion the provision of lunch on Monday, that and a willingness to ask some people to volunteer some time to set up and serve lunch.

Which is what made Hunger Sunday so frustrating – another simple call and Sunday 41 for the year could have been covered with those simple, but hunger appeasing bagged lunches.

I suppose that if the sacrifice to serve lunch on this holiday weekend was to much, I should not expect the effort to give warning so those who understand the meaning of commitment could step in and serve lunch.

Hunger, need, suffering and our host of other social ills take no Holidays.

That is not to say that those who give to their community and the less fortunate in that community do not deserve holidays. It is just that being responsible adults requires making provision for those depending on us for sustenance to be served and not left hanging – and hungry.